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The white men who can get past the mental anguish of my black penis tarnishing "their" women think I'm making some latent admission that their race has the most attractive women.
White women range from those so intrigued by black men that it veers into fetish to those so reluctant to date black men that it feels more racist than preference-driven.
Whoever wrote this article (and everyone else) should go look at this How Your Race affects the messages you get. Basically, a tech at a dating sitewent through all of its data and looked to see whether race had any effect on how likely people were to reply and send messages.
Essentially every race—including other blacks—singles them out for the cold shoulder." The final graph in the report is a table where they ask "would you strongly prefer to date someone of your own ethnic background?
And when they start going in, many of us naturally respond by either stating, “Not all Black men…” or by asking, “Why do y’all Black women believe that Black men hate y’all?
”But privately, we know damn well that he’s not joking and he’s actually uttering an ideology that far too many of us have participated in at some point in our lives.
It’s one thing to affirm yourself squarely in an anti-Black mode predicated in an unflinching self-hatred, but to view Black women as so insignificant that they don’t deserve even the slightest defense is troubling.
Because once again, as Black men, we know this is not just a Trick Daddy issue – it’s a mentality that runs far too deep among ourselves.
All of this seems to fly directly in the face of the author's implication that the low marriage rates among black women is due to black women not being willing to marry men of other ethnicities.