Expecting who you are dating to be monogamous
I live in a small retirement community with few men my age (54,) so online dating gives me access to a much broader field.
I think you should always define it, if monogamy matters to you. Everyone is different and if you're getting to know someone you don't know their philosophies about dating and relationships unless you ask.
If you want to buy 3 new dogs, you need to discuss it.
That might sound like the other person is crimping your style, but that’s just how partnerships work.
“I may have lied about my height by an inch…how dare she lie about her weight?
” “I’ve been dating on JDate on and off for six years…look at that loser – he’s been using JDate the entire time I’ve been on here and still hasn’t found someone.” “I lowered my age to be seen by more people…but what’s with these guys who take off ten years and don’t tell you until the first date?
Winston Churchill once said, “Democracy is the worst form of government, except for all the others.”You could say something similar about monogamy.