Men with no interest in dating
” He asked casually as if we just spoke the day before.“I’m wonderful,” I said, deciding to be short, but wanting him to know that my life was more than OK.“Are you still interested in me?
Because we all know that 9 times out of 10, the women are interested, ready and willing. He was the really nice guy who I’d gone on a few dates with. Well, after a few weeks of not replying to his message — the one where he said “Having a life moment. Apologies for my delayed response” — he called me.“Danielle, how are you?
The decision that many herbivore men make to stop working, because marriage and work in Japan are so inter-related, may have made it more difficult for these Japanese men to find marriage.
Many women refuse men who do not have steady jobs (such as freeters and NEETs).
As economic downturn showed the fragility of salarymen, permanent employment became less appealing, with over 2,500,000 freeters—young people working only part-time—and between 650,000 and 850,000 NEETs—young people who are "not in education, employment, or training"—between the ages of 19 and 35, living in Japan.
I know that such a person exists but can’t find a good avenue to find her. Thank you, Dale, for acknowledging a few very common truths from the world of online dating.
Many women have the frustrating experience of going out with a guy on one or a few dates, thinking that things go very well between the two of them, and then having that guy suddenly stop calling, lose all interest in them and disappear.
It is probably not a big deal when it happens with one or two guys, but if this has been your experience with men over and over for several years or longer, it is hard to not take this personally and not start believing that there is something about you that turns men off and makes those men lose interest in you over and over.
You’re a successful older man who wants to date a woman significantly younger than him. Needless to say, this goes for ALL people who are dating online. We want what WE want, even if what we want is unrealistic.
Websites generally attempt to pair singles with matches who are demographically similar. We’re all so dazzled by looks and youth that we pass up amazing people who are a much better fit. The woman who graduated high school in the same year as you? “I can’t help what I’m attracted to,” say all of my clients – both male and female. I do know, however, that as long as they close their minds to dating people who are age-appropriate, they’re really going to struggle with online dating.
Aaron Carter has insisted he has no interest in dating men, just over two weeks after opening up about his sexuality in a heartfelt message to fans.